So the last post I did was before Christmas...
A lot changed in my life since then...
I'm married! And it is going to approach four weeks of marriage this Saturday! Wow, time goes by fast...in between post even. If I told everything, this post would be very long just on wedding planning alone. I'm really writing here to regain motivation on typing up a report that I have for one of my clients...by typing more stuff about what's at the top of my head. So here we go...
Being married, the first thing people ask, "How's married life been?"
Honestly, it feels weird. After the wedding, Cindy and I just talked about what happened that day and comparing notes. It's also strange that we can now call each other husband and wife. At first we couldn't believe it. I think when people feel like they're married, there's some kind of feeling of something that tells that you're married. We didn't feel any aura or anything supernatural. But after the weeks of living together and going through our daily lives together, calling each other husband and wife feels a lot more appropriate and justified. Maybe that's the feeling of both people now feeling like you are married.
Cindy and I have been busy furnishing our apartment and making it livable. We can't thank enough from IKEA making the furniture light because our apartment is on the second floor with no elevator. On our honeymoon, we went to Hawaii and enjoyed our trip there. With anything, we shared in happy times and times to trials...even on our honeymoon. I feel we will continuously learn from each other even until the day we part to the afterlife.
I really hope that I'm the best for Cindy. Sometimes I feel that I'm inadequate to areas that she needs support. Hopefully I'm able to learn or be strong for her. I hope...
Getting towards the end of the day, me getting tired. It's Friday and Cindy and I wanted to make it a dinner date tonight. We looked for some recipes in the Chinese cookbook and there's a few recipes that look really good to do and are really quick for the most part. Can't wait to accomplish them!
I guess I'll end it here, this was what was at the top of my head...hopefully I'm able to do this blog on a daily basis like how it was back in high school where I was able to post each day, everyday. I guess the drive was somehow lost with being busy with life. Does it feel that you commit to a lot of things and you feel overwhelmed with it all even though the stuff doesn't really matter? Today and for awhile I've been feeling that way. Maybe this commitment (but commitment to my wife being top priority) could be my outlet for the others...
